Two things drive all human behavior: FEAR & IDENTITY. They go hand in hand. What a person believes about who they are - where they belong, their purpose, worth, meaning, etc. - dictates their behaviors. Often, a person's fears are the reciprocal to their identity (a common example of this: if someone's Identity is rooted in their achievements, they may also have a significant Fear of failure), which often governs their behavior, as well. In therapy, the exploration of both of these is helpful...
Mar 2017 »Two things drive all human behavior: FEAR & IDENTITY. They go hand in hand. What a person believes about who they are - where they belong, their purpose, worth, meaning, etc. - dictates their behaviors. Often, a person’s fears are the reciprocal to their identity (a common example of this: if someone’s Identity is rooted in their achievements, they may also have a significant Fear of failure), which often governs their behavior, as well. In therapy, the exploration of both of these is helpful…